Back in April, La La Anthony and Carmelo Anthony separated because the NBA superstar was accused of knocking up a stripper. Since then, La La has been looking as good as ever, setting up the most flawless thirst traps on Instagram, and was also spotted in public without her ring. We’ve all been left to wonder if the couple will divorce after 7 years of marriage, and 12 years of being together. The actress visited The Wendy Williams Show Tuesday, and confirmed that they will not be divorcing.

Not right now. Marriages are tough, you know that, we all know that. It’s filled with ups and downs. We’re going through a time right now, but him and I are the best of friends. And our number one commitment is to our son, Kiyan.

She also spilled the tea about her current dating life and you cannot shoot your shot because not only is she working it out with Melo, she’s working it out with herself first:

I’m dating myself. I’m trying to get myself in order. I’m in the gym every day. I’m eating right. I’m taking out all the bad stuff in my life and just really dating and focusing on myself.