Whether you are hoping to heighten the magic of your wedding night or want to help your confident partner connect with her sensual side, gifting lingerie is romantic, sexy, and intimate. It is an emotional gesture, an expression of your love, desire, and appreciation for your partner. Yet, while it is easy to head to any store or online site to purchase the prettiest lace panties or a perfectly form-fitting bodysuit, buying lingerie for your partner can be challenging.
You may find yourself battling everything from uncertain cup sizes to the differences between fabrics when shopping for lingerie for your partner—but fear not. Here are some tips to help you on your adventure through the world of silk, satin, and lace.
Remember Your Priorities
The delight of lingerie can be a two-way track, but the most important thing to consider when buying lingerie for your partner is focusing on what would make her genuinely feel sexy and confident. Choosing lingerie that makes your partner feel good is key. The right piece of lingerie can inspire your partner to connect with her inner boss girl and take charge of the evening or channel a softer, more sensual side to come out and play.
When you are buying lingerie, you want to make sure you remember to prioritize your partner’s preferences. Understanding your partner’s style can help you in your lingerie search. Consider your partner’s tastes. Does she have a riskier side, enjoying bright, bold colors and revealing designs? Or is your partner in love with the classics, preferring something simple and black?
For women interested in channeling their inner adventurer, perhaps try something bold, like Glamuse’s Bordelle line, which features strappy pieces in rich velvet, trimmed with 24-carat gold-plated finishes or stretch tulle in a deep red wine shade, with extra-fine fabric that will hug your partner’s curves and leave the evening’s opportunities up to both of your imaginations.
Nothing too Restrictive
Lingerie is meant to enhance your partner’s shape without leaving her feeling restricted and confined. If this is your first time buying lingerie for your partner, perhaps select a beautiful silk robe or a chemise, where sizes are easier to gauge compared to the more form-fitting bra. A great option that can call out to your partner’s inner goddess while taking some of the pressure off you to nail the fit is a kimono or negligee. Glamuse offers a diverse collection of kimonos that may be just what you are looking for. The brand’s Prelude Delicate Nimph
Negligee is an enticing option for women in love with classic allure enhanced by touches of modern design. When In Doubt, Take Her Out
While you may want to surprise your partner with something beautiful, with so many different styles, materials, and options, it can be easy to feel overwhelmed and uncertain about what move to make. If you are not sure what your partner will love or are not quite positive about her exact sizing, invite her out to join you! What could have been a stressful solo experience can instead turn into a fun and intimate shopping trip that brings you both closer together.
Perhaps not the best first-date choice, lingerie shopping can be a sexy date for couples who enjoy one another’s presence both naked and clothed. The excitement of visiting a lingerie shop with your partner can, in and of itself, be hot. The building anticipation of waiting to try on everything picked out is also, well, hot.
Just remember: lingerie is still about ensuring your partner feels confident, sexy, and great in what she wears. Whether it is a lacy little number, like Glamuse’s Aubade Under Your Spell Lace bodysuit, or a luxurious, silk pajama set to relax in, at the end of the day lingerie is a gift for your partner’s sexual and sensual side—so, make sure her feelings come first.
